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Hi my name is Tab and I'm married to Leigh, and we live in a little village in Leicestershire, UK with our very cuddly Shih Tzu called Teddy and between him and Leigh they make me laugh each day! I love to spend my time either doing a bit of crocheting or inking up a rubber stamp....truly love both and I love to dabbling in a bit of cake decorating too :o)

Thursday, 24 November 2011

Sorry for Being Quiet........

Hello my lovely friends.....really sorry for being quiet this week....but my lovely lovely Pop was admitted to hospital on Tuesday, after suffering a Stroke :o(

Thankfully, it was not as bad as we originally thought......he can now communicate with us like normal and his mind etc is working fine......the problem he has is his legs they just are not working in the way they should so he is going to have to have lots of physio to get them working again, but the hospital are positive that things will get back to normal, its just going to take some time........  He is leaning to left too now, but they say that all that can be corrected with some physio too :o)......

The hardest part has been being so far away from him.....its a 6 hour round trip, and with him being at work when it happened they took him to Chester Hospital, so its not near to his home for us to stay there......but they are hoping that when he is discharged that he can come and stay with us so that he has round the clock help.  The trouble is trying to convince my Pops, cos he just doesn't want to be a burden....but I would rather have him at home with me than have strangers look after him.....not that they wouldn't do a good job, but he is my Pop and I want to do it.

It has come as such a shock when that phone call came as you never think its going to happen to your own Pops.....but I am just thankful that it was not any worse than it was, because some of the poor souls that were on his ward just didn't seem to know what was going on......it was heartbreaking :o)......

It really has been one of those months really, we had a funeral to go to yesterday, Leigh's......lovely Uncle Colin, plus this week it was a year since we lost our lovely Billy boy......and then my Mum has been tooing and froing from the hospital too this week for more medical appointments as she has another op next week on her breast.....thankfully this time its just to make both of them look the same from when she has the Cancer removed last year....but still, it's still an op and still carries it risk....so all in all I shall be glad when November is over..... :o(

On a lighter note LOL......just want to let everyone know who has ordered stamps recently that they have all been posted out now....so hopefully they will be with you all shortly :o).......thanks so much to everyone who as bought some.....I am beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel LOL......the big pile is going down LOL.  I shall keep them updated on the For Sale page for anyone who still wants some.

I have got crafty things to share, as prior to hearing about my Pops, I had been planning on blogging a few things....so I will share those with you soon.

Happy Thanksgiving to all my American friends....hope that you all have a wonderful day with your friends and family :o)

Anyway, hope that you are all doing well and I will see you all soon!

Big hugs
Tab xxx

25 comments:

MagsB said...

*hugs* What a stressful time you're going through! I hope everything settles down soonest!

love, MagsB x

Lee said...

Hi Tab.I am so very sorry to read about all this.Am thinking of you all and hope stuff eases for you very soon.Wishing both you mum and dad all the very best.
Btw did you get my email sent late last night with an order.Huge Huge Hugs to all.xxxx

Denise and Louise said...

Oh Tab - you really have had a rotten month. So sorry to hear about your Pops - hope his road to recovery is a quick one. Also, hope your Mum's op goes smoothly.
Take care of yourself.
Big Hugs
Denise xx

Julie said...

Sorry to hear you're having such a rough time at the mo, my best wishes to you and your family.

Ella's Design said...

What a time you've been having, Tabs! Hope your Pops has a speedy recovery and that everything goes fine with your Mum's op too - here's to December and a better month for you! Best wishes to you and yours, Lisa x

Exclusively by Mel said...

Hi Tab,
Sorry to hear about your Pop.
Wishing him better xxx
Take care.
Love, Mel.

Sharon said...

Hi honey, so sorry to hear what you've been going through. Thanks for sharing it with your friends in blogland. We love you so much and pray that everything will sort themselves out in the end. Thinking of you during this time. Love and hugs, Sharon xx

Diane said...

I'm so sorry to hear the news of your dear Pops stroke, Tab. There is so much more knowledge these days about how our complicated brains work that I'm sure with support and physio he'll sooon be back to normal.
Diane x

Jo Street said...

Wow, it's seems like you and your family have really been through the mill. Hopefully things will start to pick up. Hope all goes well with your dad.
JO x

yvon said...

Hi Tab, what an awefull news, all off this. I wish you all the best and hope that everything will go better very soon.
Hugs, Yvon

Fleur said...

Oh Tab, so sorry to read all this sadness. Hope that everything will come right very soon. Thinking of you all
HUGZ Fleur xXx

Janette said...

Sending you and Leigh big hugs and warm thoughts....I am sorry for your Dad sweetie, maybe he will change his mind about staying with you at some point, good luck to your Mum too....take care hun.xxxxxx

Christine said...

Hi Tab so sorry to hear of your Pops am sure he would rather be with you to fuss over him..lol..wishing your mum a speedy recover too..thank you so much for me stamps..

big squashy hugs Christine x

CraftyLoops said...

Oh Tab Im so sorry to hear about your Pop. And then your Mum too and Leigh's poor uncle. Youve had a time of it lately. Keep your chin up. We'll not be too far aware. Lee xx

Joey said...

Awww Tab big hugs hunny, sounds like you really need some :). I hope your Pops decides to come and stay with you I understand totally how you feel about wanting to look after him, I would be the same. A few more days and we will be out of this dreaded month for you. Joey xxx

Suzie Q said...

Hi Tab,
hoping things get better for you and your family soon xx
thanks so much for speedy delivery of my stampies x
hugs
Suzie Qx

Shazza said...

sorry to hear all your news, sending you a big hug
x

Jane said...

Oh Tab hunni I'm so terribly sorry to read this about your Pop. I was thinking about you earlier wondering if you're OK and now I see not :(. Sending lots of positive thoughts and well wishes to both your Pops and your Mum and lots of strength and love to you, hugs, Jane xxxx

Ribbon Girl said...

Hello Tab - sorry to hear about your Pops and sending all good wishes for a complete recovery. Also have linked your stamps for sale on my blog post today. bg hug from Mary G x

Andrea said...

Hi Tab - I'm so sorry to hear everything you are going through at the moment. I hope that your Dad will be able to come home to you soon, and that he recovers very quickly! I hope everything goes well for your Mum too.
Sending you all love, hugs and best wishes!
Love, Andrea xx

Bernice said...

So sorry to hear about your Pops, but hopefully he'll get home soon. I know exactly what its like - my Dad had a massive stroke very unexpectedly 8 weeks ago and sadly passed away after 2 weeks in hospital. Like you say, you never think it will happen to your family.

Kim said...

Sorry to hear you're having such a hard time. I wish you and your family the best and hope everything takes a turn for the better soon.

Hugs Kim

Michelle said...

I'm so sorry Tab -- thinking good thoughts for your Pops. I lost my own father almost 9 years ago & some days I still can't believe it -- I remember the phone call like it was yesterday. And my grandma was just transferred to a nursing home after many weeks in the hospital, they think she had a stroke so I am right there with you, feeling the helplessness -- big hugs to you!!

Michelle

Liz's creative corner said...

Aw hun sorry to hear all your bad news, hoping all goes well and from December its much better for you, hugs Liz xx

Paper Lace Crafts said...

Oh Tab, it must have been an awful shock for all but I'm glad to hear 'Pop' isn't as bad as first thought. Sending lots of love to help you cope. Julie x